If you know me, you probably know that I grew up with six siblings, and I was definitely not the squeaky wheel. I was quieter and obedient for the most part and that allowed me to fly under the radar. I certainly had a lovely childhood and still have a beautiful relationship with my parents (my mother is truly a saint, SEVEN kids?!) but I decided when before I was married that I would be so intentional to try and give my kids equal attention. This is so much easier said than done, and I honestly don't even know if it's possible. I am so grateful for grace because I have three very different children and I am only one woman. BUT I truly believe they our hearts.
I have just realized lately how easy it is to take advantage of the fact that a child may be content to not be in the spotlight. Not every child will be noisy, not every child will beg, but every child deserves you. In this wild world where there are endless distractions, let's be careful to tend to each wheel, for they may not always be bold enough to squeak.
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